Truth and Good Manners #29

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Culture_of_Truth_and_Good_Manners_29 Mohini_Didi     March 29 , 2025

Om Shanti Everyone!

We are coming to the conclusion of the month and Baba is asking us to renounce even the traces of anger. So are we ready for it? It’s very interesting what Dadi Janki was saying, “What is your pull at the present?” You will not feel full whether in your perfect stage or with Baba or in paramdham. If you keep seeing things, listening to things, all of that will create confusion. There should not be any pull now. Once Dadi Prakashmani was in New York and we were driving, there was something big on a billboard. So we said, “Oh Dadi, did you see that?” She said, “I don't really look around here or there.” We were surprised at the answer, then I realized that whatever we see through our eyes, it remains in us, whatever you listen to, remains in you. We created a project called ‘images and voices in life’, whatever you say, you never forget. So, we have to be very careful not to see anything, which is not necessary. I am not here to listen, see and speak what is not necessary. Baba is saying that I should finish all the traces of the anger. Some children may think that becoming angry is not a vice. They think it is a weapon to control, and not a vice. However, anger is a very great enemy of the enlightened soul. Your anger is revealed when you come into contact or connection with other souls. When anger is seen, Father's name is greatly defamed. Those who gossip would say, now we have seen an enlightened soul so they will say, “Oh yeah, we know what you are,” you know, in the sense of being doubtful. Therefore, now finish all the traces of anger and interact with others with very good manners. Not only are you seen as a person with anger, but then they think in your family you were never taught manners, you were never disciplined. Baba is saying that if you get angry, Brahmakumaris will be defamed, Baba will be defamed, and knowledge will be defamed.  Baba is inspiring a kind of distaste for the old world in us. You should call it vairagya. Vairagya not only from lust but also from anger. So inculcating more of the qualities of calmness, peace, love, and patience. When I have this realization, I look at the cause, and remove the cause. Sometimes it's not only anger, it could be irritation. When irritation begins, it changes into force, then it changes into what they call mafia anger. You don't even know what's happening. Similar to the people in the mafia. There is godly intoxication, but on the other hand anger can turn into rage. As soon as you feel you are going out of control, go into Baba's room, remain quiet, just be silent. So use some methods, do not get upset, upset means you leave your seat of self-respect. When there is anger, there is also ego. So our nature, our thoughts should be very sweet, very royal, so that we can glorify Baba.  Om Shanti