Truth and Good Manners #6

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Culture_of_Truth_and_Good_Manners_6         Mohini_ Didi           March 6, 2025   

Om Shanti 

Whatever Baba tells us in the morning, if we are able to practice and inculcate, then definitely we are happy, but if we forget what Baba wants us to do, then we feel  ordinary and there is no happiness. Every one of us belongs to Baba, we serve yagya, but still personal efforts bring us to that contentment and happiness. Being forceful or rough in your speech is not good. Setting boundaries and firmness is important but you don't have to be rough. I'm not saying rude, but I'm saying don’t even be rough. There is a saying that when you are wounded by a sword, it gets healed, but if you are hurt by the words of someone, it takes a long time to heal, because those words keep coming in your mind. If I feel hurt then when I tell others they will feel hurt too. Baba always says not to give sorrow, and don't take sorrow. Baba wants us to have good manners. You Brahmin children are very royal. We are adopted by Baba and we are royal. Highest on high father Shiv Baba and Brahma Baba are very royal. I don't know how many of you have seen Brahma Baba, but the way Baba talked and ate, was very royal. We are royal children of such Bapdada. You Brahman children are very royal so let others experience your good manners and truthfulness from your face and your behavior. As soon as you speak people know what your stage is, and what is your manners. Baba in Murli always says that my children have to learn how to speak. Royal souls are Goddesses of good manners. Speak with regard in a royal manner. Walking, eating and drinking, every action they perform reveals their nature. Don’t let go of your good manners, even if you have to prove something to others. We are an unlimited big family, situations come where everyone wants to say what they think is right. It's okay, but say it in the right way, not roughly blaming others, accusing others, pointing our finger at others. Speak truth but with good manners. It's a very good combination and I think that if everyone listens for the whole month to the Avyakt signals you will see the connection with truth and manners, then the whole family will become a Golden Aged family. After Murli we listen to the Avyakt signal, but I don't think we pay enough attention to inculcate it. I really thank Raju Bhai who looks into Murlis. He takes one topic per month from Avyakt Murlis, this requires a lot of effort to do this, so we must use it. At least share with someone or other. This is the homework. Good student means they do their homework. Sometimes when Murli finishes, even at centers, they just run to do what they have to do. After half an hour you ask them, “What did Baba say?” They answer,“Oh I forgot.” So, if you forget in half an hour, how will you remember during the day? That is why after Murli, sit somewhere for 15 minutes and churn the murli. Whatever Baba says, at least take one or two points and don't forget that. You might not remember the full Murli but at least a few points. I will recommend to every Baba's child worldwide to reflect on Avyakt signal and what we have to do for this month. Many times, there is misunderstanding or whatever reason people could blame you for something, and you want to prove that I haven't done anything wrong or I am not that kind of person. Then you get angry, you try to say things in the wrong way, and still you are not proving what you are. So, truth has to be spoken but with good manners and good words. So, that is our homework for this month. 

Om Shanti