Truth and Good Manners #7

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Culture_of_Truth_and_Good_Manners_7        Mohini _Didi            March 7, 2025 

Om Shanti everyone! Is there any university in the world where these kinds of topics are taught? There are colleges where most of the Princes and Princesses are sent to learn manners, but I don’t think they are taught about truth and how to have good manners. They have to be royal. Those who are not trained they’re not very civilized, they’re not very humble or respectful.Thinking about what Baba is teaching us, is also remembering Baba. I really do appreciate Baba as a teacher, and of course, Baba as father because He adopted us. We are very fortunate that we are Baba’s children. Yesterday Baba said that my children should be royal children. You're talking, getting up, and eating, your every action should be royal. Also good manners are very important with the truth. If you don’t move beyond, you feel stuck in having to deal with a difficult relationship, you only think about taking revenge, how to give back what that person has given, then your thoughts will not be creative or constructive. So don’t get stuck; something happened, it happened. It was Drama, blaming each other will not solve the problem. If you think about what should be done in the future, where there were mistakes, you change them, you correct them and move forward. This is the nature of humility, when there is humility you are constructive. You easily say,"Let's move forward, let us find a solution.” Some are very insistent, they remain in the past, they hold on to past feelings. So at present they are stuck, then there is no future, right? It is only when we change now that there is a new future,a different future. This is being creative and constructive. Now say it from your heart, “Sweet Baba, my Baba.” Baba is saying that we are here to create the new world, so the seed of . When you think about creating something new, consider yourself to be an instrument and remain humble. Listening with attention is the seed of good wishes and pure feelings. There are many who would say that I have good wishes, but there are no  feelings from your heart. I  try to forget and forgive, but I can’t change my feelings for that person. It is so deep in me. The seed of good wishes starts with ‘I am Baba’s instrument’, so that is the seed of good wishes and pure feelings. Baba says that instead of expecting limited respect, remain humble,  inculcate new sanskars of good manners and truth in yourself. We can do that also with anger or irritation which emerges against our wish. Say, “My Baba” from your heart and you will receive extra help. We don't ask Baba, “Please help me, help me.” We do what is right, Baba is listening, Baba is watching. My Baba is here. It’s not praying or crying out to God, but I’m saying it from my heart, “My Baba,” as soon as we say that, there will be extra help. Some people keep thinking about problems, but we have to keep thinking about solutions, right? This is a simple solution “My Baba.” This knowledge teaches us these techniques, and we use these techniques and methods in our practical lives, that is why every word of knowledge is very important. I feel the understanding about what is the seed of good wishes and good feelings is needed to be part of my dharna. When there is that dharna, automatically those thoughts will do what they should be doing, right? Some people say, “Oh I have had good wishes for that one for such a long time but it doesn’t work.” Why it doesn’t work is because they’re not from the heart. Okay, so churn more during the day and if you get good points write it down and practice. 

Om Shanti.